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Traditions
Checklist
These questions were
originally published in the AA Grapevine in conjunction
with a series on the Twelve Traditions that began in
November 1969 and ran through September 1971. While they
were originally intended primarily for individual use,
many AA groups have since used them as a basis for wider
discussion.
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A.A. Grapevine, Inc.
Practice These
Principles . . .
Tradition One:
Our common welfare should come first; personal
recovery depends upon AA unity.
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Am I in my group a healing,
mending, integrating person, or am I divisive? What
about gossip and taking other member's inventories?
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Am I a peacemaker? Or do I, with
pious preludes such as “just for the sake of
discussion,” plunge into argument?
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Am I gentle with those who rub me
the wrong way, or am I abrasive?
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Do I make competitive AA remarks,
such as comparing one group with another or
contrasting AA in one place with AA in another?
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Do I put down some AA activities
as if I were superior for not participating in this
or that aspect of AA?
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Am I informed about AA as a
whole? Do I support, in every way I can, AA as a
whole, or just the parts I understand and approve
of?
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Am I as considerate of AA members
as I want them to be of me?
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Do I spout platitudes about love
while indulging in and secretly justifying behavior
that bristles with hostility?
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Do I go to enough AA meetings or
read enough AA literature to really keep in touch?
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Do I share with AA all of me, the
bad and the good, accepting as well as giving the
help of the fellowship?
Tradition Two: For our group purpose there is
but one ultimate authority—a loving GOD as HE may
express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are
but trusted servants; they do not govern.
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Do I criticize or do I trust and
support my group officers, AA committees, and office
workers? Newcomers? Old-timers?
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Am I absolutely trustworthy, even
in secret, with AA Twelfth Step jobs or other AA
responsibility?
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Do I look for credit in my AA
jobs? Praise for my AA ideas?
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Do I have to save face in group
discussion, or can I yield in good spirit to the
group conscience and work cheerfully along with it?
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Although I have been sober a few
years, am I willing to serve my turn at AA chores?
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In group discussions, do I sound
off about matters on which I have no experience and
little knowledge?
Tradition Three: The only requirement for AA
membership is a desire to stop drinking.
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In my mind, do I prejudge some
new AA members as losers?
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Is there some kind of alcoholic
whom I privately do not want in my AA group?
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Do I set myself up as a judge of
whether a newcomer is sincere or phony?
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Do I let language, religion (or
lack of it), race, education, age, or other such
things interfere with my carrying the message?
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Am I over impressed by a
celebrity? By a doctor, a clergyman, and ex-convict?
Or can I just treat this new member simply and
naturally as one more sick human, like the rest of
us?
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When someone turns up at AA
needing information or help (even if he can’t ask
for it aloud), does it really matter to me what he
does for a living? Where he lives? What his domestic
arrangements are? Whether he had been to AA before?
What his other problems are?
Tradition Four: Each group should be
autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or
AA as a whole.
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Do I insist that there are only a
few right ways of doing things in AA?
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Does my group always consider the
welfare of the rest of AA? Of nearby groups? Of
loners in Alaska? Of internationalists miles from
port? Of a group in Rome or El Salvador?
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Do I put down other members’
behavior when it is different from mine, or do I
learn from it?
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Do I always bear in mind that, to
those outsiders who know I am in AA, I may to some
extent represent our entire beloved Fellowship?
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Am I willing to help a newcomer
go to any lengths – his lengths, not mine – to stay
sober?
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Do I share my knowledge of AA
tools with other members who may not have heard of
them?
Tradition Five: Each group has but one
primary purpose – to carry its message to the alcoholic
who still suffers.
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Do I ever cop out by saying, “I’m
not a group, so this or that Tradition doesn’t apply
to me”?
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Am I willing to explain firmly to
a newcomer the limitations of AA help, even if he
gets mad at me for not giving him a loan?
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Have I today imposed on any AA
member for a special favor or consideration simply
because I am a fellow alcoholic?
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Am I willing to twelfth-step the
next newcomer without regard to who or what is in it
for me?
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Do I help my group in every way I
can to fulfill our primary purpose?
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Do I remember that AA old-timers,
too, can be alcoholics who still suffer? Do I try
both to help them and to learn from them?
Tradition Six: An AA group ought never
endorse, finance, or lend the AA name to any related
facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money,
property, and prestige divert us from our primary
purpose.
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Should my fellow group members
and I go out and raise money to endow several AA
beds in our local hospital?
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Is it good for a group to lease a
small building?
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Are all the officers and members
of our local club for AAs familiar with “Guidelines
on Clubs” (which is available free from GSO)?
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Should the secretary of our group
serve on the mayor’s advisory committee on
alcoholism?
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Some alcoholics will stay around
AA only if we have a TV and card room. If this is
what is required to carry the message to them,
should we have these facilities?
Tradition Seven: Every AA group ought to be
fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions.
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Honestly now, do I do all I can
to help AA (my group, my central office, my GSO)
remain self-supporting? Could I put a little more
into the basket on behalf of the new guy who can’t
afford it yet? How generous was I when tanked in a
barroom?
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Should the Grapevine sell
advertising space to book publishers and drug
companies, so it could make a big profit and become
a bigger magazine, in full color, at a cheaper price
per copy?
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If GSO runs short of funds some
year, wouldn’t it be okay to let the government
subsidize AA groups in hospitals and prisons?
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Is it more important to get a big
AA collection from a few people, or a smaller
collection in which more members participate?
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Is a group treasurer’s report
unimportant AA business? How does the treasurer feel
about it?
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How important in my recovery is
the feeling of self-respect, rather than the feeling
of being always under obligation for charity
received?
Tradition Eight: Alcoholics Anonymous should
remain forever nonprofessional, but our service centers
may employ special workers.
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Is my own behavior accurately
described by the Traditions? If not, what needs
changing?
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When I chafe about any particular
Tradition, do I realize how it affects others?
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Do I sometimes try to get some
reward – even if not money – for my personal AA
efforts?
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Do I try to sound in AA like an
expert on alcoholism? On recovery? On medicine? On
sociology? On AA itself? On psychology? On spiritual
matters? Or, heaven help me, even on humility?
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Do I make an effort to understand
what AA employees do? What workers in other
alcoholism agencies do? Can I distinguish clearly
among them?
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In my own AA life, have I any
experiences which illustrate the wisdom of this
Tradition.
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Have I paid enough attention to
the book Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions? To the
pamphlet AA Tradition – How It Developed?
Tradition Nine: AA, as such, ought never be
organized; but we may create service boards or
committees directly responsible to those they serve.
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Do I still try to boss things in
AA?
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Do I resist formal aspects of AA
because I fear them as authoritative?
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Am I mature enough to understand
and use all elements of the AA program – even if no
one makes me do so – with a sense of personal
responsibility?
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Do I exercise patience and
humility in any AA job I take?
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Am I aware of all those to whom I
am responsible in any AA job?
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Why doesn’t every AA group need a
constitution and bylaws?
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Have I learned to step out of an
AA job gracefully – and profit thereby – when the
time comes?
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What has rotation to do with
anonymity? With humility?
Tradition Ten: Alcoholics Anonymous has no
opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name ought never
be drawn into public controversy.
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Do
I ever give the impression that there really is an
“AA opinion” on Antabuse? Tranquilizers? Doctors?
Psychiatrists? Churches? Hospitals? Jails? Alcohol?
The federal government? Legalizing marijuana?
Vitamins? Al-Anon? Alateen?
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Can I honestly share my own
personal experience concerning any of those without
giving the impression I am stating the “AA opinion”?
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What in AA history gave rise to
our Tenth Tradition?
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Have I had a similar experience
in my own AA life?
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What would AA be without this
Tradition? Where would I be?
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Do I breach this or any of its
supporting Traditions in subtle, perhaps
unconscious, ways?
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How can I manifest the spirit of
this Tradition in my personal life outside AA?
Inside AA?
Tradition Eleven: Our public relations policy
is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need
always maintain personal anonymity at the level of
press, radio, and films.
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Do I sometimes promote AA so
fanatically that I make it seem unattractive?
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Am I always careful to keep the
confidences reposed in me as an AA member?
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Am I careful about throwing AA
names around – even within the Fellowship?
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Am I ashamed of being a
recovered, or recovering, alcoholic?
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What would AA be like if we were
not guided by the ideas in Tradition Eleven? Where
would I be?
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Is my sobriety attractive enough
that a sick drunk would want such a quality for
himself?
Tradition Twelve: Anonymity is the spiritual
foundation of all our Traditions, ever reminding us to
place principles before personalities.
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Why is it a good idea for me to
place the common welfare of all AA members before
individual welfare? What would happen to me if AA as
a whole disappeared?
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When I do not trust AA’s current
servants, who do I wish had the authority to
straighten them out?
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In my opinions of and remarks
about other AAs, am I implying membership
requirements other than a desire to stay sober?
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Do I ever try to get a certain AA
group to conform to my standards, not its own?
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Have I a personal responsibility
in helping an AA group fulfill its primary purpose?
What is my part?
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Does my personal behavior reflect
the Sixth Tradition – or belie it?
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Do I do all I can to support AA
financially? When is the last time I anonymously
gave away a Grapevine subscription?
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Do I complain about certain AAs’
behavior – especially if they are paid to work for
AA? Who made me so smart?
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Do I fulfill all AA
responsibilities in such a way as to please
privately even my own conscience? Really?
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Do my utterances always reflect
the Tenth Tradition, or do I give AA critics real
ammunition?
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Should I keep my AA membership a
secret, or reveal it in private conversation when
that may help another alcoholic (and therefore me)?
Is my brand of AA so attractive that other drunks
want it?
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What is the real importance of me
among more than a million AAs?
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