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Tradition
One
Copyright
© The A.A.
Grapevine, Inc., December 1947
Our
whole AA program is securely founded on the principle
of humility -- that is to say, perspective. Which implies,
among other things, that we relate ourselves rightly to
God and to our fellows; that we each see ourselves as
we really are -- "a small part of a great whole".
Seeing our fellows thus, we shall enjoy group harmony.
That is why AA Tradition can confidently state, "Our
common welfare comes first."
"Does
this mean," some will ask, "that in AA the individual
doesn't count too much? Is he to be swallowed up, dominated
by the group?"
No,
it doesn't seem to work out that way. Perhaps there is
no society on earth more solicitous of personal welfare,
more careful to grant the individual the greatest possible
liberty of belief and action. Alcoholics Anonymous has
not "musts." Few AA groups impose penalties
on anyone for nonconformity. We do suggest, but we don't
discipline. Instead, compliance or noncompliance with
any principle of AA is a matter for the conscience of
the individual; he is the judge of his own conduct. Those
words of old time, "judge not," we observe most
literally.
"But,"
some of us argue, "if AA has no authority to govern
its individual members or groups, how shall it ever be
sure that the common welfare does come first? How is it
possible to be governed without a government? If everyone
can do as he pleases, how can you have aught but anarchy?"
The
answer seems to be that we AAs cannot really do as we
please, though there is no constituted human authority
to restrain us. Actually, our common welfare is protected
by powerful safeguards. The moment any action seriously
threatens the common welfare, group opinion mobilizes
to remind us; our conscience begins to complain. If one
persists, he may become so disturbed as to get drunk;
alcohol gives him a beating. Group opinion shows him that
he is off the beam, his own conscience tells him that
he is dead wrong, and, if he goes too far, Barleycorn
brings him real conviction.
So
it is we learn that in matters deeply affecting the group
as a whole, "our common welfare comes first."
Rebellion ceases and cooperation begins because it must;
we have disciplined ourselves.
Eventually,
of course, we cooperate because we really wish to; we
see that without AA there can be little lasting recovery
for anyone. We gladly set aside personal ambitions whenever
these might harm AA. We humbly confess that we are but
"a small part of a great whole."
Copyright
© The A.A.
Grapevine, Inc., December 1947
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